35 Ways To Live Cheap (Without Anyone Knowing)

If you want to start living cheap without anyone knowing about it, this involves making choices that save money in private while maintaining a public lifestyle that looks polished and intentional.

This article will show you practical ways you can live “stealthily frugal” by reducing major expenses like housing and food, without feeling deprived.

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1. Optimize your housing costs

Housing is consistently the largest expense for many households, accounting for 30 – 50% of total spending.

One way to reduce housing costs is to choose a smaller or older home in a safe, quiet neighborhood.

Instead of opting for a newly built home or luxury condo, a well-maintained house or older apartment often appears “charming” or “classic” rather than cheap.

When my husband and I bought our first home, the neighborhood we ended up in wasn’t our first choice. We wanted to live within walking distance to the beach, but housing in that area was out of our budget.

Instead, we moved to an older and quieter neighborhood that’s a short drive away from the beach. It worked out perfectly for us.

2. Create a “uniform” wardrobe

A uniform wardrobe is a curated style of dressing where you consistently wear similar outfits or minor variations of an outfit to simplify your life and reduce decision fatigue.

Some examples include wearing a t-shirt and jeans, or a white shirt with a blazer and jeans, or a pair of trousers with a specific type of top.

While fashion is a fun way to express your personality or values, it can lead to impulsive fast-fashion buying or wasteful spending over time.

Instead of buying many low-quality items, consider thrifting for high-quality vintage or designer staples. You can check out local thrift stores in expensive neighborhoods or search for high-quality items on shopping apps like Poshmark.

If your budget has some wiggle room, tailoring second-hand clothes can make them look expensive.

3. Reframe your entertainment

This means you’ll shift your focus from “convenience-based” consumption to “experience-based” or “DIY” activities.

For example, instead of saying “I can’t afford to eat at that restaurant,” say “I’ve really been enjoying cooking at home lately” or “I’m excited to try a new recipe from a cookbook I borrowed from the public library”.

Or instead of saying “I can’t afford to go on vacation”, say “My goal is to focus on trying out all the local hiking trails”.

Some other great ways to save money on entertainment include:

Host a potluck instead of going out to expensive dinners.
Create a movie theatre experience at home with drinks and homemade snacks (I love stovetop popcorn).
Have a game night at home with cards, a board game, or trivia instead of going out to a bar.
Check out free local museums, galleries, or outdoor concerts.
Only go to restaurants during happy hour to save money on food and drinks.
Meet a friend for coffee instead of lunch or dinner to save money.

4. Cut out unnecessary subscriptions

If you’re currently paying for an expensive cable package, consider switching to a single streaming service.

I personally like to rotate subscriptions. This means instead of paying for 5 different streaming services (like Disney+, Netflix, Apple TV, Prime, and Hulu), I just pay for one and rotate them monthly.

I’ll watch everything that interests me on one service, then switch to a different service the following month to save money.

Or a completely free option is to use your local library’s digital collection for free movies and e-books.

5. Have a secret bulk buying stash in your home

I like to buy items in bulk from stores like Costco to save money. We have a storage room in our basement where I keep all our bulk purchases like toilet paper, baking supplies (flour, oats), and laundry detergent.

The key is to buy items that are not perishable or buy perishable items that can be frozen or used up before their expiration date.

6. Shop at ethnic or speciality grocery stores

Use restaurant supply stores or local ethnic markets for better prices on spices, fresh fruits, and vegetables.

Smaller markets don’t always mean higher prices. I like shopping at my local Asian, Indian, or Hispanic grocery stores. They usually have fresher produce and speciality items that you can find at regular grocery stores.

7. Use digital savings tools

Many stores have switched from using paper coupons to offering a loyalty grocery card or rewards card.

It’s usually free to sign up, and you’ll get access to exclusive discounts or accumulate points to earn rewards in exchange for tracking your shopping habits. Many loyalty cards also offer cheaper prices for its members compared to regular customers.

8. Implement the “wait and save” rule

Follow the 30-day rule for non-essential purchases. Add the item to your “wish list” and wait one month. It acts as a buffer period for reflection and promotes mindful spending.

If you still want it after your waiting period is up, then look for the most cost-effective way to buy it. This often eliminates 90% of impulse buys.

If people ask why you haven’t bought something yet, tell them that you’re “researching the best model” or “waiting for the right color”. Truthfully, it’s none of their business.

9. Learn how to DIY for luxury services

Learn to do your own nails, haircuts, or minor home repairs via YouTube tutorials. People will usually assume you have a “great stylist” or “handy connection.”

The average cost of a hair cut for women is between $50 to $100+. I bought a pair of good quality hair dressing scissors from a professional beauty supplies store. I’ve been cutting my own hair for nearly 10 years now.

I’ve literally saved thousands of dollars by cutting my own hair at home and it looks great.

10. Host potlucks and game nights

Hosting a potluck can be a great way to socialize while saving money. Make it fun by doing a “themed evening” which is often more memorable and significantly cheaper than a night out at a bar.

Pull out your favorite board games or try free print-and-play options to provide affordable entertainment.

Possible potluck themes include Mexican Fiesta (tacos, nachos), Breakfast for Dinner (pancakes, bacon, eggs), Comfort Food (mac and cheese, casseroles), or Summer BBQ (pasta salad, hamburgers).

11. Automate your savings

Set up a direct deposit of 10-20% of your income into a separate savings account. You won’t see the money, so you won’t be tempted to spend it, which keeps your lifestyle lean without constant willpower.

To do this, you can set up “pre-authorized transfers” (PATs) from your main checking account to your high-interest savings account.

Or you can ask your employer to do a “direct deposit split”, where you’ll set a certain percentage or dollar amount directly to your savings account and the rest into your main checking account.

12. Don’t let food go to waste

A good way to save money is to use apps like Olio or Too Good To Go to purchase food that restaurants or shops are about to throw away for a fraction of the cost.

Here you can browse free food from your local shops or discover things your neighbors are giving away for free (books, toys, and more).

Or you can enjoy good food from restaurants or stores at ½ price or less.

13. Take advantage of imperfect produce

Some communities offer deals like 70 lbs of imperfect produce for $20, which encourages you to cook in bulk and freeze meals.

Depending on where you live, there are subscription-based boxes available where you’ll get fresh and high-quality produce (but don’t meet arbitrary cosmetic standards) delivered to your home. This can save you up to 50% of your monthly grocery bill.

14. Reuse restaurant packets

Don’t toss plastic utensils, napkins, condiments, or hot sauce packets from takeout—use them for home meals or picnics.

15. Clean and reuse

Wash and reuse Ziploc bags, plastic containers (yogurt/sour cream tubs), and even aluminum foil.

If you are trying to reduce plastic in your home, you can save glass bottles to use as storage containers for dry goods, baking supplies, or leftovers.

16. Create your own cleaners

To reduce toxins in our home, I’ve been making my own household cleaner for nearly 10 years. You can use items like white vinegar, baking soda, castile soap, lemon juice, or water to clean just about anything in your house.

If you want, you can use essential oils to add antibacterial properties or fragrance.

17. Use a bidet

A bidet attachment can cut toilet paper usage by up to 80%. It also offers better personal hygiene by using water to thoroughly clean, reducing irritation compared to paper.

18. Zero-Waste Cooking

Zero-waste cooking is a sustainable way to reduce food waste and save money by using every part of food (root-to-stem and nose-to-tail).

For example, you can use broccoli stems by chopping them small to add to salads, stir-fries, or soups. Or you can use carrot tops to make pesto, or citrus peels to make candied peels.

Other ideas include repurposing leftovers by transforming it into a new meal. For example, using day-old steamed rice to make fried rice or stale bread to make homemade croutons.

19. Reverse Image Search

If you see an item in a store or ad you want, reverse image search it to find it cheaper elsewhere. Or you can might be able to find it used, but still in good condition.

My husband started playing softball as a hobby and was able to get all his sports gear and equipment from Facebook Marketplace for less than half the retail cost. Many of the items were in new or excellent condition.

20. Check warehouse gift cards

Buy discounted gift cards from wholesale clubs like Costco for restaurants, movies, and travel to save an instant up to 20% off the regular retail price.

We do this often if we want to eat at restaurants to save money. It’s also a great idea to give as a gift to someone.

21. Shop in a different section

To save money, consider buying basic clothes from the children’s or men’s section, which can be significantly cheaper than women’s fashion.

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I didn’t want to buy maternity clothing. Instead, I wore basic items that I found in the men’s section.

My husband’s friend can fit in youth size clothing, so he buys sports jerseys in youth size to save money.

22. Unplug “vampire” electronics

Vampire electronics are devices that consume electricity while plugged even if they’re turned off or in standby mode.

This includes TVs, chargers, game systems, and appliances with clocks. The average household can save up to $200 per year by unplugging these electronics when not in use.

23. Host a clothing swap

To save money, consider hosting a “clothing swap” with friends to refresh your wardrobe for free.

Get your friends together and ask them to bring gently used items that they don’t wear or need anymore. It’s a fun and sustainable way to declutter and upgrade your wardrobe.

You can offer snacks, tea sandwiches, desserts, cocktails, mocktails, or coffee and tea for everyone to enjoy while they swap clothes.

24. “Shopping” Your Own Closet

Another great way to save money is to shop your closet. Before buying new, go through your wardrobe to find items you forgot you had.

I’ve discovered clothes with the price tag still attached and shoes that I’ve never worn before by doing this.

25. Have regular “spend nothing” days or months

Challenge yourself to go a full day or a month without spending money on non-essentials (coffee, entertainment, eating out, and so on).

Instead, you’ll only spend money on essentials, which includes things like housing, basic groceries, and transportation.

This can help prevent impulse spending and add up to significant savings because you won’t be tempted to spend money on items that aren’t aligned with your financial goals.

The key to being successful with a no spend challenge is to prep in advance: gas up your car, pack lunches, make a meal plan for dinner, and unsubscribe from marketing emails / delete shopping apps off your phone.

Find free activities to do, such as exploring local parks, reading library books, going to a free museum or outdoor festival, hosting a movie marathon, decluttering and selling items on Facebook Marketplace, baking or cooking with items you already have at home, and so on.

26. Use only “leftover” cash

Instead of using your primary income to buy things, only spend money earned by selling unused items or gently worn items.

This is something my husband and I challenge ourselves to do each month. Whenever we want to eat at a restaurant, we find items around the house that we don’t use or need anymore and sell them on Facebook Marketplace.

This prevents our home from becoming cluttered and we use that money to do something fun.

27. Do a fridge or freezer challenge

Once a month, try not to buy any new groceries for a week and avoid eating out. This forcing you to use up everything in your pantry, fridge, or freezer.

The key to being successful with this challenge is to take inventory of what you have. Use up items that are expiring soon, meats, fresh fruits, and vegetables first.

I usually use Pinterest to find recipes based on what I have at home or borrow library cookbooks.

28. Make more “meatless” meals

My family only eats meat only once a week and it’s added up to significant savings on our monthly grocery bill.

One the days we don’t eat meat, we get our protein from eggs, tofu, edamame, lentils, chickpeas, beans, Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, whole grains like quinoa, and nuts and seeds.

29. Use cosmetology schools

If you prefer not to cut your own hair at home, consider going to a local cosmetology school.

Depending on what cosmetology schools are in your neighborhood, you can get cheap haircuts, hair color, highlights, beauty treatments, and massages rather than expensive salons.

Both my mom and mother-in-law take advantage of the cost savings at their local beauty schools. `

30. Use cash-back cards

If you feel comfortable using a credit card responsibly, choose a cash-back or rewards credit card for necessary purchases.

Make sure to pay it off immediately so you don’t carry a balance or risk paying interest fees.

With my rewards credit card, I’m able to collect points that can be redeemed for free groceries, movie theatre tickets, restaurants gift cards, shopping, or travel.

31. Quit expensive habits

Quitting smoking or drinking alcohol can save thousands annually.

Other habits that you may want to consider quitting include:

Vacation at home instead of traveling abroad.
Switching from coffee pods or Nespresso capsules to ground coffee or espresso.
Order water only when eating at a restaurant (instead of soda, wine or beer).
Visit the local library or gym instead of a shopping mall.
Use your current mobile phone until it breaks instead of upgrading every year.
Follow a simplified skin care routine instead of constantly experimenting with new products.
Painting your nails at home instead of going to the salon to get regular manicures.
Learning how to cook at home instead of buying pre-made food.

32. Check “per-ounce” costs

When shopping at the grocery store, always compare the per-unit price rather than the total price. For example, a $5 item that weighs 50 ounces costs $0.10 per ounce (5 divided by 50).

Most grocery stores include the price per unit on the price tag below the product to make it easy for you to decide which item offers the best value.

33. DIY & skill building

Learn how to mend clothes, repair items, or cook from scratch to help you save money.

YouTube has tons of free tutorials that can help you learn how to sew, fix things around the house, or improve your cooking skills.

The public library also offers free workshops and classes that teach you new skills like crafts, graphic design, how to use Excel, dancing, knitting or crochet, gardening, and so on.

34. Secondhand shopping

Purchase clothing, furniture, and appliances from thrift stores, consignment shops, or online marketplaces like Facebook and eBay.

Secondhand shopping allows you to find high-quality and unique items, and also promotes sustainability. The key is to only buy what you actually need to avoid overconsumption.

35. Bulk purchasing & freezing

Consider buying meat or other pantry staples in bulk and use it to make meals to store in the freezer for later. This can help reduce food waste which averages over $1,000 annually per household.

Some of my favorite meals to make and store in the freezer for days when I don’t feel like cooking include: